Field guides
The stuff nobody taught you.
Plain, honest writing on the parts of a social life that stopped being automatic somewhere after school — friendship, confidence, showing up. No hacks, no high-value-man nonsense. The mechanism, then the reps, because reading about connection builds exactly none of it.
Field guide · Friendship7 min read
How to Make Friends as an Adult
The friendships you had at 20 were handed to you by proximity. The ones you build at 30 you have to engineer — on purpose, with reps. Here's the mechanism, and the first moves.
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No Friends After College? Here's What Actually Happened.
You didn't lose the ability to make friends. You lost the machine that was making them for you. This is how to rebuild it by hand — and why you're far from alone.
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